by Rhett Smith | Dec 23, 2013 | Marriage
I’ve been working with couples for a long time. And one of the most frighteningly, vulnerable moments that I watch most couples experiencing — is that moment when they have to take the risk and ask their partner for what they need/want/desire in the...
by Rhett Smith | Jan 10, 2011 | Marriage
[image by the Welsh Poppy] In a marriage, changes abound. The couple may move houses. They may move states. They might have a child, or two, or three, or more. The mom may work as a stay at home mom. Or maybe even the dad might take up that work (I did for a short...
by Rhett Smith | Jul 6, 2010 | Marriage
Striving for a healthy, thriving marriage–and simply trying to avoid divorce are two very different goals for therapy. One is proactive and the other is reactive. I’ve noticed that the proactive group is often quicker to get professional help for their...
by Rhett Smith | Jan 21, 2010 | Marriage
[image by Adam Foster] “That’s not who I married!” It’s a response I often hear as I sit across from couples in therapy. At this point in the relationship one, or both of the spouses has become angered, disillusioned, sad (name the...
by Rhett Smith | Apr 22, 2009 | Marriage, Technology
For those of you that read my other writings online, you know that I love Twitter. I think it’s an absolutely amazing tool that I think has the ability to help us connect with others in some meaningful ways. And Twitter is not just about connecting online, but...
