Don’t Place Your Anxiety on Your Kids

A few weeks ago I taught a parenting class at Highland Park Presbyterian Church where I made the claim that many of the anxieties that children experience are due to issues within the family and marital unit at large, rather than just in the individual kid. This...

Your Kids Online: What Are You Doing to Them?

[image by Zieak] Something I have been torn over for a while is the question of “How much of my daughter’s life do I share online?” With blogs, Facebook, Twitter, Flickr and other services it’s more convenient than ever to post photos, share...

Reminder to Parents: Presence=LOVE

[image by Schantzilla] One of the things that I vividly remember from growing up was my father’s voice calling out encouragement from the sidelines of my athletic events. It didn’t matter if I was a good or bad player, or whether or not I even got in the...

The Sexualization of our Children

  Now that I’m a parent I am obviously thinking about the issue more, especially since I have a baby girl. It’s amazing to me how early little girls are being sexualized in advertising and culture. Here is the book mentioned in the interview: So Sexy So...

The Making of the Postmodern Family

My great friend and former co-worker RO Smith always “complements” me for being a co-nurterer of my daughter along with my wife. RO will make comments about us as a typical “postmodern family”, defying traditional and stereotypical role playing...