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Just posted at Leadership Network on the new and free e-book, Facebook for Pastors.

Please check it out!

Facebook Wins: Katherine Wolf’s mom comments on earlier post about Facebook and prayer chains

  1. kim arnold Says:
    Hi,
    I’m Katherine’s mom. I haven’t really been able to get on the computer until last night,just before going to sleep. I was so blown away that I almost woke James up with my crying. This is beyond my wildest imagination. I have ranted about the evils of Facebook for the past several years, and I have seen it used (misused) for great harm. HOWEVER, I am now reminded of Joseph’s situation….what may be meant for evil can be used by God for great good. It is humbling and comforting to see His use of it in this way. Good triumphs! May the cry of my heart go out to the ends of the earth through this vehicle: “Talitha cum!”

    Kim Arnold

This Isn’t Your Parent’s Prayer Chain

I’ve witnessed some amazing examples of how social networking is being used to connect people in prayer.

Matt Singley has a great post with just one example happening in our church on Facebook. So check that out.

Here is what is happening. A young woman in our congregation went in for emergency brain surgery at the beginning of the week, and within a day or two her family and community rallied around her, not only in person, but also in prayer as people all over the country and here locally swarmed to Facebook to prayer for her, receive constant updates on her condition, as well as finding out ways how they could help the family. Simply amazing.

Praying for Katherine Wolf has 688 members

Pray for Katherine Arnold Wolf has 1,303 members

And everytime I log on the numbers are growing. It’s an amazing example of the power of prayer in someone’s life.

In the past and still today, people usually set up prayer chains via a phone or answering service, emails, etc. But the way Facebook is being used is awesome. And if you are on Facebook, you will see constant reminders of the need to pray for Katherine and her family.

I have a meeting with Robert of Kindle this Friday, and I know he is working on ways to build praying communities online. Kindle is another great tool, and I’m excited to see it expand and grow.

New Facebook for Pastors e-book (and it’s free)


It seems like Facebook has just really exploded over the last couple of months. When I got on Facebook a couple of years ago it was basically my college students who I was friends with. Which makes sense since it began as a college social network.

But recently I have been connecting more and more with others, especially those in ministry. That being said, Chris Forbes just released the free e-book:

Facebook for Pastors: How To Build Relationships And Connect With People Using The Most Popular Social Network On The Internet

Check it out. I just started reading and really like it. It gives a really great case for why pastors, church leaders, etc. need to be on Facebook, and Greg Atkinson does an awesome job in the foreward to the book.

Here is a little blurb about the book on Chris’s site:

How to build relationships and connect with people using the most popular social network on the Internet. This 32 page e-book will help Pastors and other ministry leaders make the most of this great networking tool.

* How to make the most of your profile information
* Tips for Networking with People in Facebook
* All about groups, messages, poking, etc
* Brand Your Ministry
* Meet prospects for your church
* Learn more about the members in your church
* Fine tune your communication skills
* Testimonies from Pastors who use FaceBook
* and much more!

Twitter Love

In my continued display of Twitter love, and in an attempt to understand its phenomenon more, here is a great article to read.

Twitter at SWSX and Power to the People

And now one story of my Twitter and how it has worked in some effective ways in ministry.

Last week I was having lunch at The Counter burger joint in Santa Monica (by the way….you should eat there if you haven’t). I sent out a Twitter message from my phone saying I was at The Counter in Santa Monica eating with a college student. Within about 20 minutes I had three messages sent to me.

  1. A former student who was in the area and wanted to catch up sent me a text to let me know he was close and to see if we could meet.
  2. A former Fuller classmate saw my Twitter message on Facebook (since I’ve integrated the two), and just wanted to tell me she was jealous that I was there eating–so she posted to my Facebook.
  3. Another former student saw the message and sent me a Facebook message, seeing if we could get together for lunch since he likes The Counter.

Now…these might seem like drivel to most of you, and sometimes it can be. But this is just a very simple example of how Twitter and other forms of media are connecting people quickly. I know that many churches are exploring how to use Twitter to communicate with staff in a quick, very succinct way.

Collective Muse: College Ministry Social Network

I’ve been dreaming and thinking a lot about the desire for, and the need to connect those involved in college ministry (i.e. pastors, directors, volunteers, etc.). There are lots of college ministries, and yet there is a certain disconnect among this age and stage of ministry.

Over the last year or two I have been in more and more conversations with those involved in college ministry, and it seems that many of us have been thinking the same thing.

So after a lot of time praying and thinking about it, I created and launched a social networking site devoted to these people. I hope this site can be a hub that brings us together, helping us promote events, share ideas, meet, pray, etc. It is a place where we can bring together the work that we are all doing, and hopefully be energized and encouraged by what is taking place out there.

I will share more about the site in other posts. But please check it out and pass the word. It is a work in progress though. I wanted to do a slow and gradual rollout and just fix, edit and redesign things as they happened, and were needed, rather than trying to have everything perfect.

You can check out the site at Collective Muse.

You can check the Facebook group here.

In closing, here is the purpose of the site:

Connect
We desire to connect those serving in college ministry.

Engage
We desire to engage those involved in college ministry on issues regarding theology, ministry, praxis, etc.

Collaborate
We desire to collaborate with those serving in college ministry on projects that bring innovation and new ideas to the study and practice of this field.

Innovate
We desire to be a community that creates and welcomes innovative ideas in the field of college ministry.

Gather
We desire to gather together in order to form relationships and grow from our interactions with one another.

Prayer
We desire to be a people that continually seek the direction of college ministry through time in prayer.

Diversity
We desire to be a community that spans the breadth and depth of Christianity, interacting on this site with those involved in serving in college ministry in the various denominations, non-denominations, and traditions of Christianity.

Resource
We desire to be a resource for those serving in college ministry, as well as students who are a part of college ministry.

Non-Political Observations on Why I Think Many in My Generation and Younger are Voting for Barack Obama: Reason #1

First of all, let me say that I never write on politics. I just never have. The topic is obviously very important and interesting, but it just doesn’t interest me and fire me up like some of my friends and family. Second, I don’t consider myself an expert on politics. I watch the news, read a lot, follow the candidates to a degree, but not to the extent that many of you. Third, these are just some observations that I have made and have talked to others about. I’m totally open to you then disagreeing/agreeing, debating me, showing me where I’m wrong/right.

But what I really want to do is just point out a couple of things that I have noticed recently. I wasn’t sure if I was on/off base, until I started talking to others, and they totally agreed. So I realize I’m not alone in these observations then.

Here is what I’m trying to point out basically: I think many of the main reasons that Barack is so popular among people have nothing to do with politics, his policy, his experience, etc. That may be shocking to many of you, but I don’t think it should be. Hence why these are non-political thoughts.

So over the next week I’m just going to point out several reasons why. Nothing extensive. Not lots of research on this. Just some observations. Also, I’m just looking specifically at my generation (I’m 33 yrs. old) and younger generations since I have more experience in working with them and more opportunities to observe them and be in conversation with them.

Therefore, I would be curious of your thoughts, and would appreciate your interaction.

Reason #1: Openness

This is one of the biggest and most important reasons I believe. First, let’s all agree that the political machine and campaigns of all the candidates can spin anything, in anyway that they want. So though many will blame the media’s spin on why candidates appear one way or the other…let’s just admit that Hilary Clinton, John McCain and Barack Obama are all quite adept at the political game. And that what we may see is not the true reality. So let’s all agree there.

Of all the candidates Barack appears to be the most open. And by open I mean lots of things. He appears more transparent in his debates and speeches. More vulnerable. When attacked, he seems to admit to making mistakes. No matter if you agree with him or not, you don’t get the impression that he’s in the back room shredding documents. This sets him apart from the suscpiciousness that the “old guard” and its candidates bring to the table.

His campaign is also seen as a more “open system” He was really one of the first to be all over Facebook with groups and interactive forums, and Facebook is very much an open system, allowing input and feedback by others. His place on Facebook and MySpace, etc, endeared him to a generation that has felt disengaged from politics as a whole.

And have you seen his website? Wow! He just gets it in ways that other candidates don’t get. He and his campaign understand the importance of the web and social networking in making people feel connected and important. His web presence presents a much more open image than the others (I know Clinton and McCain have websites also…but not to the same degree), and that speaks to younger generations in some powerful ways.

I have experienced the power of this openness in our own ministry. Facebook for example (which I will point out in my upcoming chapter in The New Media Frontier in Sept.) is an open, non-hierarchical network that allows input from others without having to go through the traditional “gate keepers”, etc. This is very important, and I think Barack’s savvy online has allowed younger generations to look at politics in a different way, and get involved without having to go through the traditional “old guard” in politics.

Barack’s openness signifies to many a new way of doing politics and allowing those who have felt excluded to be a part of the process, no matter how small or how big the contribution is. Whether or not a forum on Facebook has a great impact is not the point. The point is that people feel empowered, especially at a grassroots level. And that is what online social networking sites are all about. They are about disabling the traditional systems of “closed systems” and “gatekeepers”, and about giving voice to communities of people. It is a collaborative effort that has excited new generations.

And if you are going to capture the younger generations, then you have to understand this view. I work in a church, and so I understand it better from a church perspective….and churches that don’t understand that younger generations are now bypassing the traditional “gatekeepers” and “red tape” of the church, are going to be in a lot of trouble. It’s happening in Church, and it’s happening in politics and it’s going to pervade other areas of life as well.

This generation (my generation and younger) wants transparency to such an extent that it may not comfortable to some generations. With Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Digg, Delicious, Reddit, Google, etc. people’s lives are more of an open book than before, and Barack and his campaign seem to understand this.

Thoughts?

Shane Claiborne lecture…cancelled by Baptist University. Unbelievably sad, but not surprising.

About a month ago we hosted Shane Claiborne along with other ministries in our church. It was an amazing night, and Shane was an amazing humble person. He was not only the epitome of a gracious and loving person, but everything you would want in a lecturer. He understood his context and was able to present his message in a way that would be receptive and heard…he wasn’t there to cause a ruckus or anger people. That’s why I find the story below both unbelievably sad, though not surprising as I stated.

Christianity Today reports that The Baptist school, Cedarville University in Ohio cancels the lecture by Shane Claiborne that they had planned after a number of vocal bloggers speak up. (HT: Mike DeVries)

This is one of my favorite lines in the article:

Carl Ruby, Cedarville’s vice president for student life, told CT that although there was “a high degree of receptivity on campus” to the Claiborne lecture, he decided to cancel the lecture to avoid risking conveying the wrong message about Cedarville’s doctrinal beliefs.

“There was a tension between my desire to use this event to challenge students to take a closer look at a very important social issue, and the need to protect Cedarville’s reputation as a conservative, Christ-centered university,” said Ruby. “There can’t be any confusion about our commitment to God’s Word and our historically conservative doctrinal position.

“Nearly all of the opposition to Claiborne’s visit came from off campus,” he said. “The reaction from both faculty and students has been along the lines of, ‘We are a university … We need to be having these kinds of conversations on campus if we are going to adequately equip the next generation of Christian leaders.’ “

What? I have a few thoughts running through my head right now.

  • “There was tension between my desire to use this event to challenge students to take a closer look at a very important social issue, and the need to protect Cedarville’s reputation as a conservative, Christ-centered university.” So protecting their reputation was more important that looking at important social issues that I would argue are part of God’s Truth.
  • They aren’t the only ones guilty of this…I know we all are, but it’s sad when our reputations are more important then exposing people to Truth, and I would argue that Jesus, at great risk to himself, took on important social issues of the day, rather than protecting his reputation or those that were bearers of the conservative theological tradition. If anything, he seemed to disorient and challenge those who believed that their reputations and ideas about their conservative theological doctrines were correct.
  • It’s not implicity said, but there is this idea that to have Shane would move them away from being “Christ-centered.” As if Shane isn’t Christ-centered.
  • So the opposition was from off campus, but they cancelled him anyway. That is confusing. If you really believed as a university that having Shane speak was part of “adequately equip(ping) the next generation of Christian leaders” as they state, then why would they cancel him? (I’m thinking donors with money most likely).

You can read Shane’s great response to this situation titled, “Don’t Fear Disagreement” here. But here are a couple of great excerpts:

A university must believe its students are able to “test the spirits” and work out their salvation “with fear and trembling.” We are not talking about junior high kids, but young adults who are capable of discerning truth from fiction, and who need to be trusted with and exposed to diverse perspectives.

If there is anything I’ve learned from both conservatives and liberals, it’s that we can have all the “right” answers and still be mean. And when you’re mean, it’s hard for people to listen to, much less desire, your truth.

I have been working with college students for about 10 years and I firmly believe that we have to entrust them and empower them when it comes to their faith. Way too many times schools, churches and families overprotect college students out of fear they might actually be exposed to a differing opinion. In my experience with college students, that type of protection only leads to rebellion and a faith that is not actually theirs, but rather a very fragile faith that must be continaully coddled out of fear that it might fall apart.

In closing, here is what Shane continued to say:

Unfortunately it’s difficult to communicate with folks who will not talk to you, who only talk around you, as in this case. I do not have time to hunt down every rogue Web site. There’s too much constructive work to do for the Kingdom for us to spend our energies constantly reacting to every destructive voice, especially those who do not honor Matthew’s admonition to speak directly with one another in love (Matthew 18). And there is too much brokenness in the world to spend time tearing each other apart.

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