http://rhettsmith.com/2009/07/marriage-freedom-and-belonging/ Thu, 10 May 2012 14:59:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= http://rhettsmith.com/2009/07/marriage-freedom-and-belonging/comment-page-1/#comment-8514 Douglas Mcmillan Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:10:24 +0000 http://rhettsmith.com/therapy/?p=361#comment-8514 Why do many of us enjoy make up sex so much? I think all of the 4 joys of marriage are present. 1. The joy of agreement 2. The joy of giving to your partner 3. The joy of belonging 4. The joy of complete disclosure So why can couples have markup sex all the time? I think married people jockey for control over one another, however, only to gain more responsibility at the most. How should be proceed then? If you must lead in an area of the marriage, be accommodating. If you must judge do not get caught up in common thinking traps! Please see http://montrealcbtpsychologist.com/userfiles/373150/file/Thinking_Traps_Handout.pdf. Why do many of us enjoy make up sex so much? I think all of the 4 joys of marriage are present.
1. The joy of agreement
2. The joy of giving to your partner
3. The joy of belonging
4. The joy of complete disclosure
So why can couples have markup sex all the time?
I think married people jockey for control over one another, however, only to gain more responsibility at the most.
How should be proceed then? If you must lead in an area of the marriage, be accommodating. If you must judge do not get caught up in common thinking traps! Please see http://montrealcbtpsychologist.com/userfiles/373150/file/Thinking_Traps_Handout.pdf.

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